Did anybody see that story in the N.Y.Times on July5 about Straight, Gay or Lying?
Seems like some social scientists did an experiment and concluded they had "proved" that this is the case. Said men can be aroused by other men or by women but not both. Right. tell us about it . The story appeared in the Science section, which is already problematic, as social scientists are not the same as real scientists. If they wanted to know if you can go both ways all they had to do was ask me. Or you. Or probably anybody. And i am not lying. Actually I would guess it would be closer to the truth if you said everyone is bi or lying. OK so maybe that is not exactly true, if you require enjoying same sex and opposite sex experiences. But i have learned all my life that everyone has that capacity. it's about yin and yang remember?
anyway. I'm sorry i don't have a url to paste here but if you put that in google it will be easy enough to find. I just don't know quite what to do about it. Oh yeah - didn't Mick Jagger or David Bowie or somebody say going just one way is like playing a guitar with one hand?
I have always enjoyed sexual activities with women and men, both as a bi guy and as a gay. Now that the prostate often causes ED problems for me, I still enjoy being dominant with men and women, but more and more am limited to the pleasures of being a passive and very willing member for other men and bi-women. To say one can't enjoy all variations of sexual life is just not true, but more the biased opinion of someone who has not enjoyed it.