Hey,
Im a 22 year old guy. I have felt really attracted to women in the past (and still do) and have had a good deal of sexual experiance. I have also had a soft spot for effeminate guys. In the past I just developed really good friendships and maybe gave the occasional loving massage and thought that a guy was cute. Now Im meeting a lot of gay guys that fit my idea of an attractive guy. Although I love being with a cute guy I dont actually get ummm for lack of a better word..hard. I feel like Im a big tease when it comes to guys cause I want to be with them I want ot kiss them and caress them but it doesnt do much down there. Also Ive never masturbated (im sorry if this is too much info) to the image of another guy, and I feel no desire too. I think my attraction to guys is just different then to girls...One thing I wish is that the guys i meet wouldnt try to engage in sex so quickly with me. I just wish I had some time to become comfortable and actually feel mentally attracted to the guy instead off just moving straight to sex after knowing them for like an hour. I have become very wary of any guy saying lets just go for a walk, or we'll hangout at his place for awhile. Anyway can someone explain this? Has anybody had similar experiances. Is this just a phase some go through before they become comfortable with the same sex?